Like many kids, I grew up with a strong distaste for spicy food. But seeing as I’m half South Indian, and chile peppers make a regular appearance in our cuisine, it wasn’t exactly easy to avoid. We’d often drive over to my extended family’s house on Saturday nights for dinner, and I have distinct memories of begging my parents to make me a grilled cheese before we went (or letting me order chicken nuggets from the Burger King drive-thru), despite the fact that my auntie had spent all day preparing an incredible vegetarian spread.