Barbecuing is practically my family’s love language. It’s not summer without skirt steak on the grill and a hefty bowl of crying tiger sauce (known in Thailand as nam jim jeaw).
When my grandparents first immigrated from Thailand to the United States, they lived near a bus stop in Maryland and spent much of the summer grilling outdoors when they weren’t working. My grandmother loves to tell the story of how other Thai immigrants in the area would catch the aroma of fish sauce and lemongrass drifting through the air and follow it to their front yard. Many of the friendships they built in those early years started around that grill.
When grilled, the flank steak develops a warm, charred crust that pairs perfectly with the bold, salty-sweet-sour-spicy flavors of crying tiger sauce. It’s the kind of sauce that instantly makes anything it touches delicious, and once you try it, you’ll see how it made my grandparents so many friends.